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If you liked Zami, here are the top 100 books to read next:
- #1
A powerful, soul-stirring collection that belongs on every feminist’s (and, honestly, everyone’s) reading list - expect to be challenged, inspired, and forever changed by Lorde’s words.
Sister Outsider is a collection of essays and speeches by Audre Lorde, a Black lesbian feminist, that covers a range of topics such as feminism, race relations, homophobia, and classism. The writing style is described as thoughtful, intelligent, critical, and outspoken, with Lorde being praised for her ability to communicate important issues clearly. The book offers a historical perspective on feminism and intersectionality, addressing relevant themes that are as important today as they were 40 years ago.
SINCE I’VE RETURNED from Russia a few weeks ago, I’ve been dreaming a lot. At first I dreamt about Moscow every night. Sometimes my lover and I had returned there; sometimes I would be in warmer, fami...June 1984•203 pages - #2
A gut-wrenching, necessary queer classic that’s as powerful for its history as for its raw humanity - tough to read in places, but unforgettable and essential.
'Stone Butch Blues' by Leslie Feinberg is a semi-autobiographical novel that delves into the struggle of the main character, a butch individual, as they navigate their identity in a society that is often hostile towards non-conforming gender roles. The book portrays the protagonist's journey from early teens through adulthood, highlighting the challenges faced within wider culture and the lesbian community. Despite the hardships and marginalization depicted, the story also showcases the creation of meaningful relationships amidst adversity.
Feinberg's writing style is described as raw, emotional, and evocative, offering readers a poignant glimpse into a world of pain, resilience, and self-discovery. The narrative touches on themes of gender identity, societal expectations, and the complexities of human relationships, providing a powerful exploration of the protagonist's experiences and the broader queer community during a tumultuous era.
I’m lying on my bed tonight missing you, my eyes all swollen, hot tears running down my face. There’s a fierce summer lightning storm raging outside. Tonight I walked down streets looking for you in e...1993•429 pages - #3
A daring, beautifully written, and intellectually rich memoir that won’t be for everyone, but offers profound rewards for readers open to its challenging, genre-blending style.
Maggie Nelson's 'The Argonauts' is an extraordinary memoir exploring a complicated relationship, trans fluidity, sexuality, identity, gender, and motherhood. Nelson seamlessly blends personal history, social criticism, and critical theory in a captivating reflection on sexuality, love, art, and motherhood. The book delves into the intimate details of Nelson's relationship with Harry Dodge, a transgender partner, while also waxing eloquently on writing, books, authors, and notable quotes. The narrative jumps around to discuss pregnancy, gender fluidity, child rearing, stalking, and other topics, offering a provoking look at identity, family, love, and emotion.
October, 2007. The Santa Ana winds are shredding the bark off the eucalyptus trees in long white stripes. A friend and I risk the widowmakers by having lunch outside, during which she suggests I tatto...May 2015•160 pages - #4
Unflinchingly honest and beautifully drawn, this manga memoir is equal parts painful and hopeful - a must-read for fans of intimate, character-driven stories about mental health and self-acceptance. Approach with care if you're sensitive to topics like self-harm or eating disorders.
"My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness" by Kabi Nagata is a manga-style memoir that delves into the struggles of depression, mental health issues, and self-discovery. The author narrates her journey of hiring a female escort to explore her sexuality and need for human connection, highlighting themes of self-realization, loneliness, and the ongoing battle with inner demons. Through raw and honest storytelling, Nagata navigates her path towards self-acceptance, shedding light on societal pressures, self-esteem issues, and the complexities of human relationships.
2016•153 pages - #5
A pivotal, gutsy classic in lesbian literature - imperfect but iconic, and a touchstone for understanding queer fiction’s evolution.
"Rubyfruit Jungle" by Rita Mae Brown is a groundbreaking novel that follows the story of Molly Bolt, a strong and determined protagonist navigating her way through the challenges of growing up as a lesbian in America during the 1950s and 1960s. The book explores Molly's journey of self-discovery, sexual awakening, and her defiance against societal norms and expectations. The writing style is described as bawdy, moving, and humorous, with a focus on Molly's experiences in coming out and trying to establish herself as an independent woman. The plot delves into Molly's relationships, her aspirations, and her refusal to conform to traditional gender roles.
No one remembers her beginnings. Mothers and aunts tell us about infancy and early childhood, hoping we won’t forget the past when they had total control over our lives and secretly praying that becau...1973•240 pages - #6
A groundbreaking, heartfelt, and often hilarious portrait of queer community life - DTWOF is essential reading for anyone craving authentic, character-rich comics with bite and heart.
'Dykes to Watch Out For' by Alison Bechdel is a compilation of comics that offers a humorous and insightful look into various lesbian lifestyles and relationships. The storyline includes different characters navigating issues like love affairs, coming out, therapy, and the complexities of relationships. The writing style captures the essence of lesbian culture through a series of vignettes that are both thought-provoking and entertaining.
1986•137 pages - #7
A bold, messy, and intensely personal journey - "Chelsea Girls" is for those who crave literary risk and unapologetic honesty, but it's definitely not for everyone.
'Chelsea Girls' by Eileen Myles is a raw and unflinching memoir that delves into the life of the author, exploring themes of poverty, art, friendship, love, and sex. The book presents a series of vignettes that paint a vivid picture of Eileen's experiences with getting high, falling in love, and navigating relationships. Through a distinctive writing style, Myles captures the reader's attention with her openness and curiosity, inviting them to listen to her journey of self-discovery and personal transformation.
I really had no damn business there. I mean, why am I living with my ex-girlfriend and her new girlfriend, and her ex-girlfriend. How could that possibly be comfortable. I could be writing this from a...May 1994•276 pages - #8
A sharp, inventive, and often funny coming-of-age story that's as strange and beautiful as it is moving. Not your typical LGBTQ+ novel - expect magic, melancholy, and a fearless exploration of faith, family, and self-discovery.
'Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit' by Jeanette Winterson is a semi-autobiographical novel that delves into the life of a young girl, Jeanette, growing up in an evangelical community in England during the 1960s. The story follows Jeanette's coming of age, her struggles with her own sexuality conflicting with her church's beliefs, and her journey towards self-discovery. Winterson's writing style is a mix of poetry, humor, and drama, interweaving fairy tales and fantasy elements to add depth to the narrative.
The book explores themes of family expectations, identity development, repression, and the challenges of coming of age in a conservative religious environment. Winterson's storytelling is described as witty, observant, and emotionally tough, capturing the complexities of Jeanette's upbringing and her journey towards self-acceptance.
Like most people I lived for a long time with my mother and father. My father liked to watch the wrestling, my mother liked to wrestle; it didn’t matter what. She was in the white corner and that was...1985•189 pages - #9
Bold, inventive, and emotionally searing - "In the Dream House" reinvents memoir and confronts rarely discussed truths. Unforgettable, but not an easy read.
'In the Dream House' by Carmen Maria Machado is a memoir that intricately explores the author's experience in an abusive queer relationship. Rather than following a linear narrative, the book breaks down the story into fragments, interweaving reflections on gaslighting, folklore, and the author's writing process. The writing style is described as creative, original, thought-provoking, and emotionally impactful, offering a unique and engaging approach to discussing the complexities of abuse in lesbian relationships.
I daresay you have heard of the Dream House? It is, as you know, a real place. It stands upright. It is next to a forest and at the rim of a sward. It has a foundation, though rumors of the dead burie...November 2019 - #10
A groundbreaking, thoughtful, and genre-bending look at immortality and identity. More meditative than thrilling - perfect for readers seeking fresh, intersectional stories, but maybe not for those craving high-octane vampire action.
The Gilda Stories by Jewelle L. Gomez is a novel that follows the life of Gilda, a Black lesbian vampire, through various time periods in American history. The book explores themes of identity, community, and immortality as Gilda navigates through different eras while dealing with issues of racism, sexism, and homophobia. The writing style is described as concise, direct, and poetic, capturing the essence of Gilda's journey as she searches for a place to call home and grapples with her dual nature as both human and vampire.
The Girl slept restlessly, feeling the prickly straw as if it were teasing pinches from her mother. The stiff moldy odor transformed itself into her mother’s starchy dough smell. The rustling of the G...1991•279 pages










