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If you liked Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love, here are the top 100 books to read next:
A compassionate, insightful read that’s become a classic for a reason - Hold Me Tight is an invaluable companion for couples ready to create lasting change, though it works best when approached together.
Love may be the most used and the most potent word in the English language. We write tomes about it, pen poems about it. We sing about it and pray for it. We fight wars for it (see Helen of Troy) and...A quick, practical read that helps you see and express love in ways that really land - especially useful for anyone looking to improve any kind of relationship, but may feel a bit basic for those seeking depth or complexity.
“Well,” he said, “I’ve been married three times, and each time, it was wonderful before we got married, but somehow after the wedding it all fell apart. All the love I thought I had for her and the lo...Grounded in research and packed with practical advice, this classic relationship book is an excellent resource for most couples - just be ready for a bit of science and a lot of workbook-style activities.
It’s a surprisingly cloudless Seattle morning as newlyweds Mark and Janice Gordon sit down to breakfast. Outside the apartment’s picture window, the waters of Montlake cut a deep-blue swath, while run...- #4
Save:A heartfelt, thought-provoking call to reexamine what love means in our lives; not your typical self-help book, but a must-read for those seeking a more compassionate and nuanced understanding of love in all its forms.
As a society we are embarrassed by love. We treat it as if it were an obscenity. We reluctantly admit to it. Even saying the word makes us stumble and blush . . . Love is the most important thing in o... Super approachable and packed with 'aha' moments, The Five Love Languages offers a simple framework for better communication in relationships - but it's not without its limits and dated perspectives.
“Well,” he said, “I’ve been married three times, and each time, it was wonderful before we got married, but somehow after the wedding it all fell apart. All the love I thought I had for her and the lo...A thoughtful, practical guide to building more compassion into the way you communicate - especially useful for those eager to improve tricky relationships or just understand themselves (and others) better. Not everyone will love the tone, but the core ideas are genuinely life-changing for many.
“Marshall Rosenberg’s dynamic communication techniques transform potential conflicts into peaceful dialogues. You’ll learn simple tools to defuse arguments and create compassionate connections with yo...- #7
Save:A must-read classic in the self-help genre for understanding and healing codependency, packed with helpful guidance - but best suited to those open to a conversational, sometimes repetitive, approach with a touch of spirituality.
I sat in the kitchen, drinking coffee, thinking about my unfinished housework. Dishes. Dusting. Laundry. The list was endless, yet I couldn’t get started. It was too much to think about. Doing it seem... - #8
Save:A warm, science-informed, myth-busting guide that’s particularly empowering for women - and eye-opening for anyone interested in understanding sexuality. It’s not flawless science, but it’s a must-read for its core message: You are normal.
So if you decide to have a look at other women’s vulvas—which I highly recommend, by the way, but only with their enthusiastic consent—you’ll notice how very, very different they all are from each oth... - #9
Save:A friendly, clear, and practical guide to mental health basics - perfect for anyone wanting accessible advice and real-world strategies to feel better, but may be too surface-level for those seeking deep, technical insights.
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Save:"Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love" by Douglas Carlton Abrams and John M. Gottman is a guide that helps couples navigate crucial conversations to build a strong and lasting relationship. It covers topics such as trust, commitment, money, work, sex, fun, adventure, and cherishing each other. provides conversation starters and exercises for couples to deepen their understanding of each other, make informed decisions about their relationship, and implement positive actions to strengthen their bond. The writing style is engaging, practical, and backed by examples and scientific research, making it accessible and valuable for individuals at any stage of a relationship.
Ben and Leah met on campus at the University of Arizona. Every time he walked out of his Intro to Astronomy class, she was sitting on the steps outside waiting to go into her next class. He couldn’t h...
