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    A Gate at the Stairs by Lorrie Moore
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    Come for the shimmering writing and wry wit, stay if you love nuance over neatness - A Gate at the Stairs is a beautifully written, bittersweet literary novel that divides readers but lingers in the mind.

    A Gate at the Stairs by Lorrie Moore follows Tassie Keltjin, a college student who takes on a job as a part-time nanny for a family that has adopted a bi-racial child. The book explores themes of coming of age, loss, carelessness, and the complexities of relationships. The narrative delves into Tassie's experiences with the family she works for, her own family dynamics, and her personal struggles, all set against the backdrop of post-9/11 America. Moore's writing style is described as witty, astute, and poignant, with characters who are both intriguing and flawed.

    The cold came late that fall and the songbirds were caught off guard. By the time the snow and wind began in earnest, too many had been suckered into staying, and instead of flying south, instead of a...
    August 2009
    338 pages

  2. #2
    Giant Days, Vol. 1
    Book 1 in the series:Giant Days

    Giant Days, Vol. 1 - Giant Days by John Allison
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    A funny, heartwarming, and relatable celebration of college friendships - read it for the laughs, stay for the charming trio. Worth a try if you want something light, fun, and full of personality.

    Giant Days, Vol. 1 by John Allison follows the lives of three college friends, Susan, Esther, and Daisy, as they navigate their freshman year. The book is described as a slice of life comedy with vibrant and cute panels that showcase the girls' unique quirks and personalities. The characters play off each other in interesting ways, making it an entertaining and light-hearted read. The writing style is praised for being fun, fresh, and humorous, focusing on themes of friendship, self-discovery, and the challenges of young adulthood.

    December 2015
    128 pages

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    Either/Or by Elif Batuman
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    Sparkling, cerebral, and deeply funny - Either/Or is a sharp, self-aware exploration of youth, ideas, and how we make sense of our world. A must for lit lovers and fans of thoughtful, character-driven novels!

    Readers have mixed opinions on "Either/Or" by Elif Batuman. Some readers found the book to be a continuation of the author's previous work, "The Idiot," with the main character, Selin, navigating love and life at Harvard. The book is described as a campus novel of ideas, exploring themes of sexuality, gender dynamics, and the development of the protagonist's mind. The writing style is noted for its intelligence, humor, and auto-fiction elements, providing a glimpse into the protagonist's introspective journey.

    Svetlana got to campus the day after me, though it felt like years. I had already slept the night in my new room, eaten breakfast and lunch in the cafeteria, and made numerous trips back and forth to...
    2021
    364 pages

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    I am Charlotte Simmons by Tom Wolfe
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    Tom Wolfe’s campus satire is sharply observed and sometimes laugh-out-loud funny, but its sprawling plot and occasionally out-of-touch tone mean it isn’t for everyone. If you like social skewering and don’t mind unlikable characters, go for it - but be prepared for a bumpy ride.

    'I Am Charlotte Simmons' by Tom Wolfe is a novel that delves into the life of a young college girl named Charlotte Simmons as she navigates the complexities of campus life at Dupont University. The book offers a social commentary on modern college life, touching on themes such as elitism, student-athlete culture, and the pursuit of fitting in. Through vivid and detailed descriptions, Wolfe portrays the challenges and experiences faced by Charlotte as she transitions from a sheltered small-town girl to a student exposed to the realities of academic achievement, social status, and peer pressure.

    ALLEGHANY COUNTY IS perched so high up in the hills of western North Carolina that golfers intrepid enough to go up there to play golf call it mountain golf. The county’s only big cash crop is Christm...
    November 2004
    764 pages

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    Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld
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    A raw, resonant, and realistic portrait of teenage insecurity and the yearning to belong - Prep will hit close to home for anyone who remembers the pain and poignancy of growing up, but it’s not for those who crave a neat, happy ending or an endlessly likable heroine.

    "Prep" by Curtis Sittenfeld follows the story of Lee Fiora, a scholarship student at a prestigious boarding school in Massachusetts. The narrative delves into Lee's struggles with insecurity, alienation, and self-doubt as she navigates through the complexities and awkwardness of high school life. The writing style captures the bittersweet account of Lee's coming of age, portraying her as a relatable but not always sympathetic character who grapples with fitting into her surroundings while dealing with unrequited love and teenage angst.

    Set against the backdrop of a prep school, the novel offers a realistic portrayal of adolescent experiences, showcasing themes of anxiety, insecurity, and the constant struggle for acceptance and belonging. The story unfolds through Lee's perspective, providing insights into her journey of self-discovery and transformation during her years at the boarding school. The plot explores the challenges faced by Lee as she copes with feelings of isolation and inadequacy, ultimately offering a poignant reflection on the complexities of teenage life.

    I think that everything, or at least the part of everything that happened to me, started with the Roman architecture mix-up. Ancient History was my first class of the day, occurring after morning chap...
    January 2005
    459 pages

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    Eligible
    Book 4 in the series:The Austen Project

    Eligible - The Austen Project by Curtis Sittenfeld
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    A bold, witty, and very modern retelling of "Pride and Prejudice" - this one’s for fans of fresh takes with plenty of sass, but it might not seduce hardcore Austen loyalists.

    In "Eligible," Curtis Sittenfeld presents a modern retelling of Jane Austen's classic "Pride and Prejudice." Set in contemporary America, the story follows Liz Bennet, a magazine writer living in New York, who returns home to Cincinnati to help her family during her father's illness. There, she encounters haughty neurosurgeon Fitzwilliam Darcy and his friend Chip Bingley, leading to a series of events that mirror the beloved original while adding modern twists and addressing societal issues.

    WELL BEFORE HIS arrival in Cincinnati, everyone knew that Chip Bingley was looking for a wife. Two years earlier, Chip—graduate of Dartmouth College and Harvard Medical School, scion of the Pennsylvan...
    April 2016
    539 pages

  7. #7

    The Interestings by Meg Wolitzer
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    A smart, sprawling, and thoughtful look at friendship, ambition, and growing up - best for readers who enjoy digging into complex character relationships and life's messy realities. Give it a try if you're in the mood for an engrossing, true-to-life literary journey.

    The novel "The Interestings" by Meg Wolitzer follows the lives of a group of friends who meet at a summer art camp in the 1970s and call themselves The Interestings. The story spans several decades, exploring their friendships, ambitions, successes, and struggles as they navigate through life. The book delves into themes of talent, success, jealousy, love, and the lasting impact of formative experiences in teenage years. Wolitzer weaves a complex narrative, capturing the evolution of relationships and the way friendships change over time.

    On a warm night in early July of that long-evaporated year, the Interestings gathered for the very first time. They were only fifteen, sixteen, and they began to call themselves the name with tentativ...
    April 2013
    560 pages

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    The Female Persuasion by Meg Wolitzer
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    A sharp, timely, and ambitious novel that dives deep into what it means to come of age in the world of modern feminism. Not for everyone - but if you're interested in explorations of female ambition, friendship, and power, it's a worthy read.

    "The Female Persuasion" by Meg Wolitzer is a novel that delves into the complexities of feminism, relationships, and personal growth. The story follows Greer Kadetsky, a young woman who forms a mentorship relationship with the well-known feminist leader Faith Frank. As Greer navigates through her coming of age journey, the book explores themes of feminism, female empowerment, and the challenges faced by women in different generations. The plot weaves back and forth in time, offering a richly layered narrative that focuses on the characters' internal struggles and growth rather than a fast-paced storyline.

    Greer Kadetsky met Faith Frank in October of 2006 at Ryland College, where Faith had come to deliver the Edmund and Wilhelmina Ryland Memorial Lecture; and though that night the chapel was full of stu...
    April 2018
    500 pages

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    The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides
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    A thoughtful, literary take on love, coming-of-age and the messiness of adulthood - with sharp writing and flawed but memorable characters. Not quite as epic as Middlesex, but a solid, satisfying read for bookish souls.

    'The Marriage Plot' by Jeffrey Eugenides revolves around a love triangle involving three college seniors at Brown University in the early 1980s - Madeleine, Leonard, and Mitchell. Madeleine is an incurable romantic who finds herself torn between Leonard, a brilliant but manic depressive student, and Mitchell, a Religious Studies major. The story delves into their relationships, personal struggles, and journeys of self-discovery post-graduation, with themes of love, intellectual pursuits, mental illness, and the complexities of young adulthood. The narrative style combines elements of Victorian literature with modern-day challenges, offering insights into the characters' emotional landscapes and academic endeavors.

    The writing style of Jeffrey Eugenides in 'The Marriage Plot' is described as engaging, introspective, and filled with intellectual depth. The novel explores various themes such as love, literature, religion, and mental health, providing a nuanced portrayal of the characters' inner conflicts and personal growth. offers a blend of academic discourse, emotional exploration, and coming-of-age experiences, creating a rich tapestry of storytelling that resonates with readers on different levels.

    To start with, look at all the books. There were her Edith Wharton novels, arranged not by title but date of publication; there was the complete Modern Library set of Henry James, a gift from her fath...
    October 2011
    502 pages

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    The Idiot by Elif Batuman
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    A smart, funny, and keenly observed campus novel that's more about the journey of self-discovery than plot twists - perfect for literature lovers, language buffs, and anyone nostalgic for college days, but polarizing for readers needing more action.

    'The Idiot' by Elif Batuman follows the story of Selin, a college freshman at Harvard in 1995, as she navigates her first love, friendships, and academic life. The narrative is presented in a diary-like format, offering insights into Selin's thoughts and experiences with humor and honesty. The plot meanders slowly, focusing on Selin's musings on language, self-discovery, and the challenges of young adulthood. The story is filled with quirky characters and absurd moments, providing a glimpse into the protagonist's journey of finding meaning and purpose in a world full of uncertainties.

    I didn’t know what email was until I got to college. I had heard of email, and knew that in some sense I would “have” it. “You’ll be so fancy,” said my mother’s sister, who had married a computer scie...
    2017
    465 pages

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