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'We Are Never Meeting in Real Life.' by Samantha Irby is a collection of raw and honest essays that delve into the author's experiences as a black woman in America. Irby shares her struggles with anxiety, chronic illness, and dating, all while infusing her writing with humor and wit. The book offers a glimpse into Irby's life, where she fearlessly exposes her innermost thoughts and secrets, creating a relatable and entertaining narrative for readers. Through her quirky storytelling, Irby explores themes of self-deprecation, love, and the challenges of navigating through life's uncertainties.

Writing/Prose:

The writing is characterized by a mix of brutal honesty and humor, creating a conversational and relatable tone that resonates with readers.

Plot/Storyline:

The narrative is centered around the author's personal life experiences, using humor to tackle serious subjects such as introversion, relationships, and health challenges.

Setting:

The setting is contemporary and personal, featuring scenes from everyday life that readers can easily relate to.

Pacing:

The pacing is brisk, as the collection consists of short essays that keep the reader engaged without feeling overwhelmed.
I am squeezed into my push-up bra and sparkly, ill-fitting dress. I’ve got the requisite sixteen coats of waterproof mascara, black eyeliner, and salmon-colored streaks of hastily applied self-tanner ...

Notes:

Samantha Irby is known for her fierce and brutally honest writing style.
Her essays often explore themes of anxiety, chronic illness, and introversion.
Irby describes her experiences with humor, even when discussing serious topics.
She shares stories from her life that are relatable to many, particularly about being single and living alone.
Irby has a unique perspective on love, often questioning traditional expectations.
Many readers find her insights into dating and relationships amusing and candid.
Her cat, humorously named Helen Keller, features prominently in her stories.
Irby's work is often compared to writers like Jenny Lawson and Allie Brosh, known for self-deprecating humor.
The collection includes contemplative reflections on societal norms and expectations, especially regarding women.
Readers have praised the audiobook version for Irby's own narration, noting her comedic delivery enhances the experience.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

The book contains content related to mental health struggles, discussions of chronic illness, and themes of poverty, which may be triggering for some readers.

From The Publisher:

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

This essay collection from the "bitches gotta eat" blogger, writer on Hulu's Shrill, and "one of our country's most fierce and foulmouthed authors" (Amber Tamblyn, Vulture) is sure to make you alternately cackle with glee and cry real tears.

Whether Samantha Irby is talking about how her difficult childhood has led to a problem in making "adult" budgets; explaining why she should be the new Bachelorette (she's "35-ish, but could easily pass for 60-something"); detailing a disastrous pilgrimage-slash-romantic-vacation to Nashville to scatter her estranged father's ashes; sharing awkward sexual encounters; or dispensing advice on how to navigate friendships with former drinking buddies who are now suburban moms (hang in there for the Costco loot!); she's as deft at poking fun at the ghosts of her past self as she is at capturing powerful emotional truths.

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1 comment(s)

Incredible
4 months

so many five stars this summer

so many incredible black women writers this summer

irby's brand of self-deprecating humor allows her to sneak up on you with a sucker-punch to the heart

while you were choking on laughter at a story about having diarrhea in the snow, she was plotting about how to make you cry with one line in the next essay

as a single woman in the second half of her thirties, i really resonate with irby's thoughts on living alone and loving it even though society says you shouldn't

outside pajamas...this woman is living my best life

 

About the Author:

Samantha Irby is a writer whose work you can find on the internet. www.bitchesgottaeat.com

 
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