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What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma

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'What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma' by Stephanie Foo is a powerful and emotional memoir that delves into the author's journey of surviving complex trauma and her relentless pursuit of healing. Through impeccable and vulnerable storytelling, Foo shares her coping mechanisms, self-soothing techniques, and in-depth analysis of her hometown and past experiences. The book is praised for its relatable tone, cultural depth, and the author's ability to share nuanced and painful experiences of severe childhood abuse.

The narrative in the book resonates with readers struggling with CPTSD, providing a raw and honest account of the effects of an abusive childhood and dysfunctional upbringing. Foo's writing style is described as searingly honest, immensely helpful, and essential for anyone looking to heal from trauma. The book not only offers personal insights but also sheds light on the flaws in the healthcare system and the journey of relentless healing and recovery from trauma.

Writing/Prose:

The writing style is conversational and engaging, mixing personal narrative with thorough research, making complex topics accessible and relatable.

Plot/Storyline:

The plot centers on the author's exploration of her traumatic past, including experiences of abandonment and abuse, and her subsequent journey towards healing and understanding her complex PTSD.

Setting:

The setting spans the author's childhood and adult life, providing context for her experiences with trauma and recovery.

Pacing:

The pacing varies, combining rapid narrative flow with moments that require thoughtful consideration of heavy themes.

Notes:

Stephanie Foo's memoir details her journey to heal from complex PTSD (CPTSD) caused by childhood abuse and neglect.
Foo's narrative combines personal experiences with research, making it both relatable and informative.
The book challenges the effectiveness of the American mental healthcare system, highlighting its flaws.
Readers found Foo's honest storytelling refreshing, especially since she's not a trained psychologist or PhD.
The memoir resonates deeply with those who've faced similar traumas, often sparking emotional responses, including tears and realizations.
Foo includes actual therapy session clips in the audiobook, enhancing the reading experience.
The author examines whether trauma is more prevalent in the Asian American community, providing nuanced insights.
Many readers reported feeling a strong connection to Foo's journey, with some claiming it mirrored their own experiences.
The book is not just for those with CPTSD but also for friends and family of trauma survivors, offering valuable perspectives.
It emphasizes the importance of understanding CPTSD and its difference from PTSD, focusing on enduring trauma rather than a single event.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Content warnings include discussions of childhood abuse, neglect, trauma, mental health issues, and references to complex PTSD.

From The Publisher:

A searing memoir of reckoning and healing by acclaimed journalist Stephanie Foo, investigating the little-understood science behind complex PTSD and how it has shaped her life

"Achingly exquisite . . . providing real hope for those who long to heal."-Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Washington Post, Cosmopolitan, NPR, Mashable, She Reads, Publishers Weekly

By age thirty, Stephanie Foo was successful on paper: She had her dream job as an award-winning radio producer at This American Life and a loving boyfriend. But behind her office door, she was having panic attacks and sobbing at her desk every morning. After years of questioning what was wrong with herself, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD-a condition that occurs when trauma happens continuously, over the course of years.

Both of Foo's parents abandoned her when she was a teenager, after years of physical and verbal abuse and neglect. She thought she'd moved on, but her new diagnosis illuminated the way her past continued to threaten her health, relationships, and career. She found limited resources to help her, so Foo set out to heal herself, and to map her experiences onto the scarce literature about C-PTSD.

In this deeply personal and thoroughly researched account, Foo interviews scientists and psychologists and tries a variety of innovative therapies. She returns to her hometown of San Jose, California, to investigate the effects of immigrant trauma on the community, and she uncovers family secrets in the country of her birth, Malaysia, to learn how trauma can be inherited through generations. Ultimately, she discovers that you don't move on from trauma-but you can learn to move with it.

Powerful, enlightening, and hopeful, What My Bones Know is a brave narrative that reckons with the hold of the past over the present, the mind over the body-and examines one woman's ability to reclaim agency from her trauma.

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2 comment(s)

Loved It
1 month

3.75

I listened to the audiobook. While Foo's writing style isn't necessarily on point with how I like, the story had me feeling all types of ways. I did feel I was spacing out at some parts, and that's why I rounded up because I'm sure it's me who sucks and not the book. Her story of c-ptsd was very sad and taught me a lot about it which I liked.

 
Incredible
2 months

This is an incredible book - absolutely one of the best I’ve read in a long time. Foo writes in such a way that she is SO relatable and her memoir of working through her C-PTSD was helpful to me as I’m working through my own brain and trauma.

 
 
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