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Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls

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"Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls" by Mary Pipher delves into the challenges faced by teenage girls in the '90s, exploring issues such as sexism, lookism, and societal pressures. Through personal stories and case studies, the author highlights the struggles of adolescent girls dealing with problems related to family relationships, peer pressure, drugs, violence, and self-image. Pipher offers practical advice to parents and adults on understanding and supporting teenage girls through adolescence, drawing from her experiences as a psychologist working with young girls.

"Reviving Ophelia" serves as a wake-up call to parents, educators, and society at large, urging for a cultural shift to create a safer and more supportive environment for adolescent girls. provides insights into the challenges faced by young girls in navigating puberty, peer expectations, and societal norms, emphasizing the importance of empowering girls to overcome obstacles and find their sense of self-worth in a world that often demeans and devalues them.

Writing/Prose:

The writing is clear and engaging, making complex psychological and feminist concepts accessible to both parents and adolescent readers.

Plot/Storyline:

The narrative revolves around the experiences and challenges of adolescent girls as they navigate the complexities of their environment, emphasizing how societal factors impact their psychological well-being.

Setting:

The setting is rooted in the cultural dynamics of the 1990s, yet remains relevant to contemporary issues faced by adolescent girls today.

Pacing:

While some parts may come across as repetitive, the pacing becomes more engaging as the book progresses into tailored discussions on specific topics.
When my cousin Polly was a girl, she was energy in motion. She danced, did cartwheels and splits, played football, basketball and baseball with the neighborhood boys, wrestled with my brothers, biked,...

Notes:

The book was written by psychologist Mary Pipher and focuses on the challenges faced by adolescent girls.
It combines personal stories of girls with larger cultural issues affecting them.
The author uses case studies from her therapy practice to illustrate the struggles of young girls.
Pipher believes that girls in the 1990s faced unique pressures from sexism and societal expectations.
Themes include parental relationships, depression, eating disorders, and peer pressure.
The book emphasizes the importance of strong family support systems during adolescence.
It encourages girls to find constructive ways to address societal pressures and recognize that their emotions are valid.
Many readers found that it provided insights and coping strategies for their own teenage years.
The book highlights that adolescent girls are often punished for being different or feeling insecure.
Some readers feel the book could promote a view that all girls' problems stem from external societal issues, which may not apply universally.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Content warnings include discussions of psychological distress, eating disorders, substance abuse, bullying, sexual harassment, and societal pressures.

From The Publisher:

#1 New York Times Bestseller

The groundbreaking work that poses one of the most provocative questions of a generation: what is happening to the selves of adolescent girls?

As a therapist, Mary Pipher was becoming frustrated with the growing problems among adolescent girls. Why were so many of them turning to therapy in the first place? Why had these lovely and promising human beings fallen prey to depression, eating disorders, suicide attempts, and crushingly low self-esteem? The answer hit a nerve with Pipher, with parents, and with the girls themselves. Crashing and burning in a "developmental Bermuda Triangle," they were coming of age in a media-saturated culture preoccupied with unrealistic ideals of beauty and images of dehumanized sex, a culture rife with addictions and sexually transmitted diseases. They were losing their resiliency and optimism in a "girl-poisoning" culture that propagated values at odds with those necessary to survive.

Told in the brave, fearless, and honest voices of the girls themselves who are emerging from the chaos of adolescence, Reviving Ophelia is a call to arms, offering important tactics, empathy, and strength, and urging a change where young hearts can flourish again, and rediscover and reengage their sense of self.

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Interesting look at the realities and disturbing cultural messages bombarding today's young women

 

About the Author:

Mary Pipher, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and author of Women Rowing North: Navigating Life's Currents and Flourishing As We Age, Hunger Pains: The American Woman's Tragic Quest for Thinness, The Shelter of Each Other: Rebuilding Our Families, Another Country: Navigating the…

 
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