Who Would Like This Book:
This memoir hits hard and fast - it’s a raw, unforgettable account of survival against all odds. Dave Pelzer’s story shows not only the depths of cruelty that can happen behind closed doors but also the power of resilience and hope. The simple, direct writing style puts you right in young Dave’s shoes, making it a true page-turner despite its tough topics. If you crave real stories that open your eyes and inspire you to appreciate the goodness in your life - and maybe want to make a difference for others - this book is for you. Particularly impactful for teens, adults, teachers, and anyone interested in psychology, social work, or real-life overcoming-the-odds stories.
Who May Not Like This Book:
Some readers struggle with the graphic, relentless depiction of abuse - it can be gut-wrenching and emotionally exhausting. The writing style is straightforward but often criticized as flat or simplistic, with inconsistent timelines and unanswered questions about the motivations behind the abuse. There’s also controversy over the full truth of events, with some questioning the accuracy or feeling the story is too sensationalized. If you need stories with closure, subtlety, or deep character exploration, this might not hit the mark - and it’s definitely not for the faint-hearted or those who want to avoid reading about trauma in detail.
About:
"A Child Called 'It'" by Dave Pelzer is a heartbreaking memoir that details the horrific abuse suffered by the author at the hands of his alcoholic mother. The story follows young Dave as he endures physical and emotional torment, starvation, and torture, depicting the unimaginable pain and suffering he experienced during his childhood. Pelzer's writing style is described as vivid, intense, and at times difficult to read due to the graphic nature of the abuse portrayed in the book.
This memoir is a powerful account of resilience and survival, showcasing Dave Pelzer's journey through a harrowing upbringing marked by neglect and violence. The narrative delves into the depths of child abuse and the lasting impact it has on its victims, while also highlighting Pelzer's ability to overcome his traumatic past with faith, determination, and positivity. Readers are taken on a poignant and sobering exploration of Pelzer's traumatic childhood, leaving a lasting impression of gratitude for the kindness in life.
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Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings
Triggers and content warnings include high levels of child abuse, violence, neglect, and psychological trauma.
From The Publisher:
This book chronicles the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games-games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."
Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive-dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.
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8 comment(s)
Well written, bur the subject was almost impossible to handle for me. The rage I felt is still burning in my soul all these years later.
This book was ridiculous. I am willing to put money on the fact that it was mostly made-up. Yes, I understand that children are abused in the world and it is very sad, but this book was more than likely a cry for attention and fame. Nowhere in the book does it give any reason for his mother to hate him in comparison to how she feels about her other children. Also, do you not think his teachers would get the hint that the kid is goddamn hungry and bring him a lunch? This book just made no sense, and was also incredibly poorly written. I've never even given a book one star but if I could give this one no stars I would have. Complete waste of time.
This book was ridiculous. I am willing to put money on the fact that it was mostly made-up. Yes, I understand that children are abused in the world and it is very sad, but this book was more than likely a cry for attention and fame. Nowhere in the book does it give any reason for his mother to hate him in comparison to how she feels about her other children. Also, do you not think his teachers would get the hint that the kid is goddamn hungry and bring him a lunch? This book just made no sense, and was also incredibly poorly written. I've never even given a book one star but if I could give this one no stars I would have. Complete waste of time.
Very sad and powerful book about a boy who has only known love when his mother DECIDED to give it to him.
Very sad and powerful book about a boy who has only known love when his mother DECIDED to give it to him.
Again yes it was dramatic but if you’re going to say it say it louder
I have mixed feelings about this book, it was very well written. However I was constantly upset and angry while reading. You've been forewarned.
a real look at horrid child abuse
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A Child Called "It"?
About the Author:
Dave Pelzer travels throughout the nation promoting inspiration and resilience. His unique accomplishments have garnered personal commendations from Presidents Reagan and Bush. In 1993 Pelzer was chosen as one of the Ten Outstanding Young Americans (TOYA), and in 1994 was the only American to receive The Outstanding Young Persons of the World (TOYP) award. He was also a torchbearer for the Centennial Olympic Games
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