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The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family

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If you’re fascinated (or baffled) by how internet conspiracies can infiltrate everyday households, this book will keep you turning the pages. Jesselyn Cook approaches a tough topic with empathy, weaving together real family stories in a way that’s both readable and deeply moving. You don’t need to be a policy wonk to enjoy this - anyone interested in human psychology, modern politics, or current affairs will get a lot out of it. It’s especially helpful for those who know someone affected by QAnon and are trying to make sense of it all.

Who May Not Like This Book:

Some readers might find this book frustrating if they’re looking for a completely neutral or apolitical take - it does not shy away from criticizing certain right-wing figures and media, which might feel off-putting to conservative readers. Also, if you’re after a straightforward explainer about QAnon, rather than emotional family stories, this might not be the deep dive into internet rabbit holes you’re hoping for. And, the stories can be emotionally heavy, so be ready for some tough, sometimes unresolved endings.

A compassionate, eye-opening look at how conspiracy theories tear families apart - powerful, empathetic, and timely. Don’t pick this up for a neutral, purely analytical take; do pick it up if you want real stories that may help you understand (or even heal) the QAnon divide.

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The Quiet Damage: QAnon and the Destruction of the American Family by Jesselyn Cook explores the harrowing impact of QAnon on several families in America. Cook carefully outlines the stories of five individuals, showcasing the unexpected ways in which they were drawn into conspiracy thinking. Each family’s experience highlights the vulnerabilities that can lead people to radical beliefs, often driven by loneliness, despair, or the quest for a sense of purpose and community.

Cook's writing style is engaging and compassionate, drawing readers into the emotional depths of each story. She avoids being overly judgmental, focusing instead on the personal journeys and the efforts of family members trying to help their loved ones escape the grip of QAnon. The narrative provides both insight and empathy, making it a thought-provoking read that seeks to illuminate the consequences of conspiracy theories on personal relationships.

Writing/Prose:

The author's writing style is engaging and compassionate, balancing emotive storytelling with factual reporting.

Plot/Storyline:

The storyline revolves around multiple families impacted by QAnon, showcasing the emotional and psychological turmoil they experience and the overall societal effects.

Setting:

The setting is modern America, focusing on the real-life environments where the families interact.

Pacing:

The pacing is fast, allowing readers to stay engrossed due to the engaging storytelling.

Notes:

The author, Jesselyn Cook, presents well-organized stories about families affected by QAnon.
She avoids judging the poor choices of family members.
The book highlights loneliness and despair as factors drawing people to cults.
It was surprising to see this issue prevalent in America.
Not every reader may finish the book due to its heavy content.
The author provides insights into the radicalization that led to events like the Capitol attack.
Cook’s research involved interviewing hundreds of people, but focuses on five unique cases.
The featured individuals do not fit the typical QAnon stereotype.
They range from conservative Christians to far-left environmentalists.
Readers often struggle to understand how educated people get involved in QAnon.
The book reveals that not all stories have happy endings.
One character risks his life trying to reason with a QAnon believer.
Cook offers empathy while pointing out the absurdities of QAnon beliefs.
She emphasizes the societal damage caused by conspiracies, especially within families.
Her compelling writing style keeps readers engaged from start to finish.
Families suffer as loved ones fall into conspiratorial thinking.
Despite the horror of the stories, there is a message of hope toward healing.
The book provides advice for families seeking to help loved ones impacted by QAnon.

Sensitive Topics/Content Warnings

Triggers and content warnings include discussion of mental health issues, manipulation, cult involvement, family strife, and societal division.

From The Publisher:

The "gripping" ( The Atlantic ) story of five families shattered by pernicious, pervasive conspiracy theories, and how we might set ourselves free from a crisis that could haunt American life for generations.

"Excellent . . . This is the intimate side of the cold civil war America has been stuck in for nearly a decade."-Michelle Goldberg, The New York Times

"SHED MY DNA": three excruciating words uttered by a QAnon-obsessed mother, once a highly respected lawyer, to her only son, once the closest person in her life. QAnon beliefs and adjacent conspiracy theories have had devastating political consequences as they've exploded in popularity. What's often overlooked is the lasting havoc they wreak on our society at its most basic and intimate level-the family.

In The Quiet Damage , celebrated reporter Jesselyn Cook paints a harrowing portrait of the vulnerabilities that have left so many of us susceptible to outrageous falsehoods promising order, purpose, and control. Braided throughout are the stories of five American families: an elderly couple whose fifty-year romance takes a heartbreaking turn; millennial sisters of color who grew up in dire poverty-one to become a BLM activist, the other, a hardcore conspiracy theorist pulling her little boy down the rabbit hole with her; a Bay Area hippie-type and her business-executive fiancé, who must decide whether to stay with her as she turns into a stranger before his eyes; evangelical parents whose simple life in a sleepy suburb spirals into delusion-fueled chaos; and a rural mother-son duo who, after carrying each other through unspeakable tragedy, stop speaking at all as ludicrous untruths shatter a bond long thought unbreakable.

Charting the arc of each believer's path from their first intersection with conspiracy theories to the depths of their cultish conviction, to-in some cases-their rejection of disinformation and the mending of fractured relationships, Cook offers a rare, intimate look into the psychology of how and why ordinary people come to believe the unbelievable. Profound, brilliantly researched, and beautifully written, The Quiet Damage lays bare how we have been taken hostage by grifters peddling lies built on false hope-and how we might release our loved ones, and ourselves, from their grasp.

July 2024
272 pages

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